What is SUCCESS ?( part -III)

Continued from part- II

Now let us discuss the 3rd assumption

 “A poor person suddenly got some money in the lottery and with his prudent decisions made him a billionaire. But he suddenly has no time for his family or about himself also.”

In this scenario presented,raises important questions about the true nature of success. If we use the definitions of success from the Oxford and Cambridge dictionaries—achieving a desired result or having a positive effect—the man who won the lottery and became a billionaire could certainly be considered successful in a material sense. He achieved wealth, which might have been a desired result.

However, the question arises: Is this success fulfilling? The man may have gained financial success, but at what cost? If he loses time for his family and personal well-being, he might not feel truly satisfied or happy despite his wealth. This situation suggests that success should be measured not just by material gains but by overall life satisfaction, including relationships, health, and personal fulfillment.

This analysis shows that success is multifaceted. Achieving wealth is one form, but if it comes at the expense of other important aspects of life, such as family connections and personal happiness, it may not be the holistic success that truly brings contentment. Success, therefore, may require balancing various life elements, ensuring that no single achievement overshadows the broader picture of a fulfilling life.

The scenario you’ve presented raises important questions about the true nature of success. If we use the definitions of success from the Oxford and Cambridge dictionaries—achieving a desired result or having a positive effect—the man who won the lottery and became a billionaire could certainly be considered successful in a material sense. He achieved wealth, which might have been a desired result.

However, the question arises: Is this success fulfilling? The man may have gained financial success, but at what cost? If he loses time for his family and personal well-being, he might not feel truly satisfied or happy despite his wealth. This situation suggests that success should be measured not just by material gains but by overall life satisfaction, including relationships, health, and personal fulfillment.

This analysis shows that success is multifaceted. Achieving wealth is one form, but if it comes at the expense of other important aspects of life, such as family connections and personal happiness, it may not be the holistic success that truly brings contentment. Success, therefore, may require balancing various life elements, ensuring that no single achievement overshadows the broader picture of a fulfilling life.

What about scenerio 4 th

A middle class person always having shortages , but live happily with his family and spent lot of time with them though he could not fulfil all their requirements”

In the case , lets go for a detailed analysis-

Achievement and Intention -This individual might not have achieved all their material goals or fulfilled every requirement, but they have succeeded in maintaining a happy, loving family environment. If the goal was to have a close-knit family and to enjoy life despite financial constraints, then according to the Oxford definition, they have achieved what they set out to do.

Desired Results and Positive Outcomes: According to the Cambridge definition, success involves achieving positive results. This person has succeeded in creating a nurturing and happy family life, which can be seen as a significant positive outcome. Their success is not measured by material wealth but by the quality of their relationships and personal contentment.

Holistic View of Success: Hence from assumption of condition 3 and 4 Success is not solely about achieving material goals or fulfilling all requirements. It also encompasses personal satisfaction, quality of relationships, and emotional well-being. The middle-class person’s success is evident in their ability to maintain a loving family despite financial limitations.

Subjective Nature of Success: 

Success is subjective and can be defined differently by different individuals. For this person, success might mean family happiness and personal contentment rather than financial abundance. Their life exemplifies that success can be about achieving what is most meaningful to oneself, not just adhering to conventional measures of wealth and achievement.Balancing Goals and Fulfillment: The analysis suggests that achieving a balance between material aspirations and personal fulfillment is crucial. While financial stability is important, it is equally vital to nurture relationships and personal happiness, which can be a substantial measure of success. ( To be continued)

RAJAT CHANDRA SARMAH 

GUWAHATI , ASSAM INDIA

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